Visual walkthrough — Concentration units — mass %, volume %, ppm, ppb, molarity (M), molality (m), mole fraction
Before we touch algebra, let us name every symbol we are about to use, and draw the one object the whole derivation lives inside: a single litre of solution.
Step 0 — The words and the beaker
The two units disagree only about the denominator: molarity divides by the total liquid; molality divides by just the solvent's mass. So the whole job of the derivation is: start from the total, peel off the solute, and see how much solvent is left.

The picture shows our single beaker holding exactly 1 litre = 1000 mL of solution. Everything from here on is bookkeeping inside this one beaker. That fixed choice — "take 1 L" — is the trick; watch how it makes each step trivial.
Step 1 — Fix the basis: choose exactly 1 litre
WHAT we do: declare our sample size to be .
PICTURE: the beaker in the figure below is filled to the 1 L mark. Nothing is calculated yet — we have only committed to how much we are talking about.

Step 2 — Count the moles of solute
WHY: molarity literally means "moles per litre". Multiply by our 1 litre and the litres cancel, leaving pure moles.
PICTURE: the blue dots below represent the solute particles. There are " moles' worth" of them, floating in the litre.

Step 3 — Weigh the whole solution (density enters)
PICTURE: the beaker is placed on a balance; the readout is grams. Notice the balance weighs everything in the beaker — solute plus solvent — because both have mass.

Step 4 — Weigh just the solute (molar mass enters)
PICTURE: imagine scooping only the dissolved particles out onto a tiny pan. That pan reads grams — a slice of the total mass from Step 3.

Step 5 — Subtract: what's left is the solvent
PICTURE: a bar of length grams. A red chunk of length (the solute) is cut away; the remaining green bar is the solvent.

Step 6 — Assemble molality
WHY this is the final answer: we just wrote the definition of molality, , and plugged in the two pieces we built. Every symbol was earned:
- came from the litre we chose,
- came from turning volume into mass,
- came from turning moles into mass.

Step 7 — The dilute / degenerate case (why for water)
PICTURE: two beakers side by side. Left: a nearly-empty solute chunk → green solvent bar is almost the full , so . Right: a fat solute chunk → green bar is much shorter, so dividing by a smaller kg pushes above .

The one-picture summary

This final figure stacks the whole derivation into one flow: 1 L chosen → moles = → ×density gives total mass → moles × gives solute mass → subtract → solvent kg → divide moles by it. Follow the arrows top to bottom and you have rebuilt the boxed formula without memorizing a thing.
Recall Feynman retelling — say it to a friend
Grab one litre of the solution — that's our whole world. Because molarity is "moles per litre," this litre holds exactly moles of solute; that number's free. Now I want weights, not volumes. Density tells me each mL weighs grams, so the full litre weighs grams — solute and solvent stuck together. But molality only cares about the solvent's weight. So I weigh the solute by itself: moles times grams-per-mole grams. I chop that off the total. What's left, grams, is pure solvent. Turn it into kilograms (÷1000). Finally, molality is "moles of solute per kilogram of solvent," so I divide my moles by that kilogram figure — and out pops If barely any solute is dissolved, the chopped-off piece is tiny, the solvent is basically the whole litre, and for water () you get . That's the entire idea.
Recall Quick self-check
Why does density appear before molar mass in the chain? ::: Density converts our known volume into the total mass; molar mass then converts moles into the solute's mass to subtract. They do different jobs, in that order. In , what does each term physically represent? ::: = mass of the whole solution (g); = mass of the solute alone (g); the difference = mass of solvent (g). When is ? ::: When the solvent mass drops below 1 kg — i.e. concentrated and/or heavy solute (large ) with density not much above 1.
Related builds: The Mole and Avogadro's Number · Density · Molar Mass and Formula Mass · Stoichiometry and Dilution · Colligative Properties (where molality is used).